The dramatic rescue of a 2 years old girl from the eight floor window.

A two years old girl was a tug of war between the suicidal father and a rescuer on an eight floor window in Chengdu , China.

She was saved by the rescuer and thanks God that she was lucky to be alive and a tragic incident averted.

It is so horrible and terrifying to witness such a calamitous scene.

The suicidal father who was on drugs was gripping the ankle of his daughter and dangling her outside the eight floor window and threatening to throw her down.

Why did the father threaten to throw her down from the eight floor?

It is very sad when the parents take out their stress and frustrations and hit on the innocent child.

They are irrational and whatever the reasons, he should not have done that .It is very inhuman.

Life is precious and furthermore when they are only a young and defenseless child.

There have been cases where the man could not cope with looking after a child and they became violent and went into a rage with dangerous results.

Sometimes , it is about problems in their relationships where the mother devotes too much of her time on her baby and neglecting her man. This can be a source of contentions between them.

Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/worldnews/article-1198271/The-moment-suicidal-man-tried-hurl-daughter-eighth-floor-window.html

Lottery win is bad for your health ?

It is the only hope for the poor to make it rich without sweating for it. Even if they worked very hard , they will not make it into the rich category.

Those who are capable may need a long time to accumulate their riches. Many want a shortcut way to riches.

There are three and sometimes four lottery draws in a week in Malaysia. There is another big lottery with the first prize being Rm$3million .

Many poor people play those lotteries regularly . Some place small bets while others may hope of striking it rich and becoming a millionaire.

The big boss of those lotteries are sure winners and the government gets a cut through taxes.

Despite those horrendous odds,those punters believed in their luck.There are many stories of people striking it rich due to circumstances.

Sometimes, extra ordinary things or events happened and those people bet on those events. They looked up in the ‘numbers dictionary ‘which interpret events or things into numbers.

One of my friend found an egg near his car and he exaggerated his story to his friend that a hen laid an egg on top of his car.

Both of them interpreted the events and bought his car number, the egg number and the hen number. That very day of the first draw, all three numbers came up and they were richer by a few thousands.

Was it pure coincidence ? They were very lucky indeed.

WINNING the lottery is bad for your health even though it makes you happy.

Many punters do not accept this fact. They see the rich and their opulent lifestyles and want to be like them without working for it.Greed has blinded them.,

They think that money can solve all their problems in life and they will live luxuriously without any financial worries.

No worries matey! They can always seek the best doctors money can buy ,to cure them if they are sick.

Jackpot winners drink and smoke too much as they celebrate their good fortune and enjoy their new-found wealth.

When a man has plenty of money, he would indulge in those ’sin’ activities. He would gamble more, womanize, visit hookers, keep mistresses ,drink more, smoke more and eat more of those expensive foods.

They end up having “worse lifestyles” and suffer long-term health problems.

Buying the lottery is like cutting your pound of flesh and selling it to the Sherlock. It is your blood , sweat and toil money .

Think of what you can do with those money instead of feeding it to the hungry tiger.

It is still not to late to stop this gambling habit.It is addictive and can destroy your happiness.

Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/2518412/Lotto-win-is-bad-for-your-health.html

Dead for 5 years and no one noticed !

Had her downstairs neighbour not noticed water dripping through her ceiling, she would still be dead and unnoticed by anyone.Nobody noticed any foul smell coming out from her flat?

The badly decomposed remains of an 89-year-old woman,Miss Purves were discovered in her flat five years after she died,

This is a sad reflections of the times we live in. You could be dead and nobody knows until something drastic happens and you are discovered.

People who lives alone are vulnerable. If they do not work or have any relatives or friends, they may die without anyone knowing or unable to get help while dying.

In today’s busy living world, there is no time to get to know our neigbours. We all mind our own business and ignore our neigbours.

After work , we will return home and locked ourselves in our homes and enter into our own private world.

In the modern city life, it is everyone for himself/herself.We have no time for our neigbours unless there are advantages to us. Otherwise, we don’t give a damned about our neighbours.

Sometimes neighbours too,do not like to mix around or kept aloof from us. It could either be a misunderstandings or a growing social problem.

Nobody noticed she was missing as her pension was paid directly into a bank account and bills were paid by direct debit.The convenience of modern life has its drawbacks.

This is a very sad but true case. It is not easy living next to a loner because old people can be obnoxious and sometimes they can cause frictions or troubles or do not like people to poke into their business.

As the population grows older, this will become a common occurrence in the foreseeable future unless the government does something about it.

Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1197314/Woman-85-lay-dead-flat-years-noticed-missing.html

The best way to boost fertility- have daily sex !’

There are couples who wanted children but no matter how hard they tried, they could not get pregnant.

Some of them went for medical checkups to find the cause of their infertility. Others tried those complicated medical treatments and expensive pills or portions.

The way to boost fertility could be as simple as making love every day. Have plenty of rest, eat the right kind of food and exercise regularly.

The present generation is over worked,over stressed and under exercise and fed a lousy under nourished diet which caused them to feel fatigue and dulled their sexual life.

Her most fertile period is seven days before and after the onset of her first day of period . His sperms can stay in her from three to seven days.

Some women may not have regular periods. Usually ovulation is on day 14 of the menstrual cycle .

The problem is that many women don’t ovulate on day 14 of their cycle. Normal ovulation can occur as early as day 10 and as late as day 20 (or even later, especially if your cycles are irregular).

How can you predict when you will ovulate ? There are many methods available, including using ovulation predictor kits or tracking your basal body temperature.

Trying to find the right timing can be distracting from the purpose of sex. It can become a chore and becoming less about love and connection. This can cause tremendous stress on a relationship.

Research shows daily passion boosts both the quality of a man’s sperm . You should have passions like when you were young.

Making love regularly is said to prevent the build-up of damaged sperm. Freshly produced sperm is better than stored sperms. They may not secrete in large quantities but it only take one sperm to fertilize the egg. Fresh sperms are greater swimmers than old sperms.

Just enjoy the passions in love and leave everything to God. I believe children are a blessings from God.

Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1196482/Passion-day-best-way-boost-fertility.html

http://infertility.about.com/od/tryingtoconceive101/f/whengetpregnant.htm

Allergic to modern life ?

Can you imagine yourself living in a world where there are no mobile phones, microwave ovens, radios, televisions and WiFi-enabled computers or laptops?

It is like going back to the dark ages. No one would like to go back in time unless they are forced to. Life would be more cheaper, simpler and healthier and less stressful.

Some day , who knows, we may have to go back to the stone age when this world ends and a new world begins.

People living near those telecommunication towers have complained about the effects of those electromagnetic impulses emitted from those towers .

There are people who says that there are no scientific evidence that those waves of electrical energies are harmful to human beings but I am inclined to believes that those people living within the vicinity of those towers may have their health affected in the long run.

There are those who believed that it can cause harm to the health of those people in the long run. Some people are always sick or unhealthy and they cannot pinpoint the cause of their sickness.

It may not affect everyone but it does cause some difficulties to those people who are allergic to those electromagnetic impulses.

Some people may have their health affected like this lady ,former TV producer, Sarah Dacre, 53. She was finally diagnosed with electro-hypersensitivity.

She suffered from numbness down the right side of her body and bad digestion,high blood pressure , ,attacks ,breathlessness,blurred vision, heart arythmia, thyroid problems, vertigo, tinnitus, and chronic fatigue.

Electromagnetic impulses could cause those harmful effects on the human body, and the symptoms is called electro-hypersensitivity, or EHS.

She had to clear her bedroom of the phone, TV, computer and electrical wires of any kind, and lined it with foil wallpaper.

She could not be near, or be in public buildings such as airports, railway stations, museums or restaurants; travel on the Tube, or drive on a motorway without triggering symptoms of EHS.

When finally diagnosed with electro-hypersensitivity, her illness forced her to leave both her job and her home.

She is allergic to modern technology and now stays in the rural area without all those electronic gadgets.

When she found out the cause of her sickness, she avoided those places and equipments and almost immediately, she began to feel better, to have more energy, and to sleep and eat better.

Are you allergic to modern living ?

Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-1195551/It-happened–Im-allergic-modern-life.html

Working mothers count their blessings

Everyone should count their blessings. Whether you are a full time housewife or a working mother , you should count your blessings and thanks God for those blessings.What you have and enjoy , others are not so fortunate and have not.

In this present world, being a full time housewife is a luxury only the rich can afford.

For the millions of ordinary women, they will have to work to put food on the table and to help their husbands to pay off those bills or send their kids to college.

One income is not enough to sustain a family unless you want to live in the rural areas or in the jungle and plant your own food and live a very simple and Spartan life.

There was a case of a Russian billionaire who gave up all his billions and went to live in the wild with his family.

The house had no electricity and no modern amenities. They felt more happy this way. His money brought him many problems.

People wanted to kill him or kidnap his wife and children because of his money.He had a large contingent of bodyguards and followed him where ever he goes. There was always danger to him and death lurks in every corner.

He got tired of this kind of life and gave up all his money and chose a simple life away from civilization.

Working mothers are thankful to others for making them able to hold a job.They are thankful to the baby sitters ,care minders or their parents,the teachers, neighbours and many others .

Every woman has the prerogative to choose their path. Whether they want to be a full time mother or a working mother. Each will have to make a sacrifice and trade off.

Working mothers should look at the positive side. There are so many things to be thankful about .

They get to have time alone .They get to have interactions with other adults. They earn a paycheck and have financial independence .They have an identity other than just a ‘mom.’

They set an example for their children to follow and the children can become more independent and self reliance.

Still has any regrets about being a working mom ? Time to move forward and don’t look back.

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Reference and thanks to :-

http://workingmoms.about.com/od/todaysworkingmoms/a/workingmothers.htm

Children as young as three need sunglasses .

Do your kids as young as three need sunglasses ?

It is not for aesthetic reasons but for the protection of their fragile eyes.
It maybe a problem forcing them to wear those sunglasses but if the parents are wearing one ,it will be easier to persuade them to wear it too. Children like to ape what their parents are doing.

According to some experts, they should wear sunglasses to protect their eyes from the strong sunlight.Over-exposure to UV rays has also been linked to blurred vision and even blindness.

Keep your child from long exposure to strong or bright sunlight . Do not allow them to be exposed for too long , excessive exposure to sunlight can potentially damage their eyes .

To protect their eyes, children as young as three should be wearing sunglasses when playing outside in bright weather.

Toddlers are especially vulnerable to the sun’s rays, as their lenses are more transparent than an adult’s, allowing more short-wavelength light to reach the retina. and can cause vision disorders.

Parents should buy a good pair of sunglasses with the necessary protection. Buying a cheap one may
well increase the risks of sun damage to their children’s eyes.

Children being young may not know how to take care of those sunglasses and they can easily be lost ,manhandled and broken. Getting them an expensive one is out of question. Perhaps a reasonable and affordable one will suffice.

Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1194561/Why-children-young-need-sunglasses.html

Do women need sexy lingerie?

Do you think those sexy lingerie is not right for you because you don’t have the right body shape ?

Think you are too fat,too old,too ugly, not beautiful enough and not sexy enough to adorn them ?

Excuses! Excuses! Most girls would give flimsy excuses why they don’t go for those sexy lingerie. Some think it is too slutty to wear them .

They don’t have those bodies like those models.They think that only those models are most suited to wear them .They feel that they are not sexy enough .

It can be a very expensive affair.Sometimes it is not about how much you spend but how you feel.

When you buy something you like or want , it will make you feel good.It need not be the most expensive type.

It is just an underwear and and you don’t have to spend a bomb on it because nobody will see them except yourself. Why waste those money?

Lisa Cole’s book, “Lingerie: The Foundation of a Woman’s Life” , is filled with real stories about real women who saw their lives change as a result of picking out the perfect undergarments.

The sensual touch of those silk and lace against your skin will give you a hint of luxury and glamour all day long and you will gain a new appreciation of yourselves.

Feeling good is a result of looking good. When you are looking good , you will automatically feel good and if you wear those sexy lingerie, you will feel more feminine and seductive .

Others may not be able to see it but you will feel the sensual touch of those lingerie

You will gain the confidence and boost your self esteem and will be able to project it outwardly.

Regardless of your body type, those intimate undergarments would help you project a confident body image.

Imagine yourself wearing those granny panties or those faded or with holes panties,you would not feel sexy at all and would turn off your man.

One look at them is enough to turn off his sex drive. His high drive would veer or careen off the mountain slope.

You would have to take them off in the dark when you are in the mood…LOL!

If you need to feel more feminine , seductive and sexy , you will need to have some sexy lingerie to perk up your confident and have the ‘feel good factor.’

The men are attracted by visuals and presenting your best side would capture their fullest attention and they will not want to stray or wander away from you.

Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.lifescript.com/Body/Style/Your-Look/Ooh-la-la_Why_Every_Woman_Needs_Sexy_Lingerie.aspx

Would you marry a porn star ?

Just weeks before her wedding,Haylie Hocking, 27, only found out that her fiancee, Jason Brake made adult films and she has canceled the wedding.

She discovered his secret when her friends organized a hen party and wanted to hire a male stripper. She stumbled upon a movie clip and saw him in a porn movie.

If you were in that kind of situation , what would you do?

Would you rather come clean before your partner and confess all your dark secrets rather than let them discover by themselves and all hell breaks loose ?

If you want to be fair to him/her, you should come clean . It is better before the marriage than after the marriage.

Most people dare not come clean because they are scared of losing their partners. They love them too much and losing them because of some foolish things they did in the past is regrettable.

If it was in the past, it should be forgiven .After all ,there is nothing one can do to change the past and what has happened.

I guess it wasn’t his day and they were not meant for each other.

It can come as a rude shock if you discovered that your soon to be married partner has a sordid past.

Will your love be strong enough to weather the storm in your life ? Can you forgive him/her and pretend that nothing has happened ? Will you be able to accept him and live with the stigma and shame?

It is a hard choice and many people will not be able to grant forgiveness nor accept those tainted with unsavoury past.

If she had known his secret and are willing to have a relationship , it would be a different matter.

Some people can fall in love and marry hookers, gigolos and porn stars .

These people are able to accept them because they love them as a person and what they does , is not important to them.

Some may accept them only if they are retired and some may think of it as a job . obviously , not everyone thinks alike.

Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/5549158/Woman-cancels-wedding-after-finding-fiance-was-porn-star.html

Have a baby before 35?

“New evidence from the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists says it is increasingly difficult for women to become pregnant after the age of 35.”(dailymail.co.uk)

This isn’t exactly good news to many of those women who are 35 and still childless or unmarried.

It is an early warning to those who are near the age boundaries and that it pays to heed those warnings before it is too late. Don’t leave everything to chance or fate.

To be told that the chances of having your own babies after 35 is difficult is like taking apart of your life away.

This certain part of your life will never be fulfilled and you would not feel like a complete woman.

Many women left it too late and their lifelong dreams of becoming a mother to her pretty baby can only belong in the fantasy world. There is nothing more they can do anything about it unless they have plenty of money to burn by going for the IVF.

During her most fertile years, most women focus on her careers and social life and when they realized it is time to enjoy motherhood, they have gone by the expiry date.

By then ,it is not you who will decide if you want motherhood but mother nature.

If women does not want to miss the boat, they should have babies before 35 or they will risk missing out on motherhood.

The best age to have babies is from 20 to 35 and the younger the better. Older mothers may face infertility problems , higher risk of miscarriage and birth complications.Older mothers may also suffer from diabetes and preeclampsia,which can lead to blood clots and serious complications, or even death.

There is also the higher risk of deformities to the babies and other defects like Downs Syndrome .

Some women may go for IVF treatments which is very expensive .
Fertility treatment has a success rate of 31 per cent for women up to the mid-30s but drops to a mere 5 per cent for those 42 and over.

Recently a 66 year’s old woman ,Elizabeth Adeney became a mother through IVF.(http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1182919/A-baby-66-desperate-divorcee-set-Britains-oldest-mother.html).She gave birth to a 5lbs 3 oz boy and both are doing fine.

She was desperate for a child. She is a wealthy business women and could afford the IVF process. For those who could not afford it , they would have to resign to their fates.

Due to the technological advance in science, women can have pregnancies even when they do not produce any eggs.

The fertilized donor egg is impregnated into her womb by the IVF method. If it is not possible, the fertilized eggs can be impregnated into a surrogate mum.

The oldest woman in the world to give birth was 70-year-old Omkari Panwar from India, who had a twin boy and girl last year.

There are moral and ethical considerations of having a baby so late in life.It is her decision and we should not judge her. It is something which she yearns for and she got it.

I believed everything happens because God wills it to happen. In her case , she is blessed with a young life .

Some women can be under the impressions that they can have babies even after their 40’s.
We have read about those aging celebrities who are over 40’s ,like Nicole Kidman, Halle Berry and Madonna having children , But what was not reported was that they used a donor egg, or donor sperm (their husbands could be infertile)

You will have to decide if you want your own children or your career. Would you prefer material success or motherhood?

Which will give you more satisfaction and fulfillment as a woman ?

Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1193296/Have-baby-35-Meet-deadline-risk-missing-motherhood-say-doctors.html

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1193587/Baby-left-late-Two-women-reveal-gambled-late-motherhood–different-results.html