A man’s word is not cast in stones!
A man’s word is not ‘cast in stone’ unlike God’s word.
What a man said is only valid at that particular moment or maybe 24 hours or 1 week and after that it is no more valid or has become inapplicable.
Many women kept those words said by men for 20 or 30 years and some till even their dying days.It is so dumb to believe those words said by man like the Gospel truth.
What they said at one moment can be forgotten in a few minutes or hours and they conveniently do not remember them after wards and go about doing their usual thing without a care.
While the women are carrying those hurts every minute of their walking life.
Those hurtful words are like arrows shot at their heart and remains there for eternity untill someone comes and take them away.
Words said 2 months ago does not apply anymore.Circumstances have changed and to know whether they have changed, you need to go there and probe him.
Breakups are common among the youngs because they are inexperienced and do not know how to handle those pressures.It does not mean that you are not suited or incompatible with each other.
In time , if they are fated to be together, they will make up again.
Breaking up does not mean that you will walk away forever from that person.There are many people who make up after they breakup when they realized their follies.
Relationship is not an easy thing and you don’t just lie on the bed and everything will solved by itself.
You need to have understandings , love and the capacity to resolve all those contentious issues.
People are not machines and they have feelings and emotions. They can be influenced and swayed by emotions and certain actions of another individual.
The ground is not always static for it can shift according to those external forces.
Sometimes ,what you hear or see is not what you get.
You not only have to hear what is spoken from the mouth but you also need to feel with your heart what that person wants or means.