If Your Man Looks At Porns Or Pictures Of Naked Women…
Each and everyone of us will have to deal with this situation sometime in our life . There are some women who can accept this situation while there are some who have zero tolerance level and completely against it and break up with their man over this incident through their lack of maturity or inexperience. There are others who do not know what to do.
Some women go to the extremes when it comes to a relationship. These are the militant women where their views are ‘porn degrades all women’. They will not accept the man if they look at porn or pictures of naked women . For them , it is grave sin or a serious form of cheating.
Even while masturbating , the men cannot think of other women except them. These women not only want to control what the men can do but also what their brains want to think. This is ludicrous.
Even the very act of masturbating is loathsome to some women as they will feel that they are not beautiful enough to warrant sex with them. Is something wrong with her or why do the men need to jack off himself when he has her? This is what perplexs her.
It can cause them great anguish , anger and resentment on their partners. In extreme cases, they may even separate or divorce because of this fact .
It does not matter about the other good qualities of the man. It is like demanding a 100% perfect man. I hope they will be able to find their kind of men in this world who do not look at porn or ogle at other women .What kind of men do not look at porn or ogle at other women? It seems that they can look at other men or women while they find it offensive when their men look at other women.
There is no hard and fast rule about watching porn . It is up to the two of them to compromise and if they cannot, then there will be a parting of ways.
Sometimes , it is not the porn watching that is the point of contention but the lying and trust issues. Some men lied to their partners that they will stop but carried on behind their backs and get caught. They leave traces of history on the computer or their stacks or pornographic DVD’s and magazines.
Most guys do watch porn or pictures of naked women in their youth whenever the opportunities arise.Some of them carry on this activities until their ripe old age. Some may carry on discreetly after they have married as they know some of their wives would be angry and hurt .
The men are expected to give up this activity once they are married or do it discreetly. In the Western world , especially with the younger generations , quite a majority of the girls have zero tolerance of their man watching porn or pictures of naked women. You can feel it from the many questions from the ‘Dear Cupid ‘ site. You can go there by clicking on the link on the right hand sidebar on this page.
Women are wired differently from men and they do personalize almost everything. It is never good to argue with any women because she will most of the time take it personally and not about the issues alone. She seems not to be able to see the differences. It is about issues and not about her personality.
A man watching porn maybe a straight forward virtual sexual stimulations to jack off and nothing more to him . But women look at this issue from a personal point of view and consider this as outright cheating and comparing her self with those young and hot porn stars and thereby feeling inadequate and insecure . For these low self esteemed and no confident women, it is unacceptable and either the man must choose her or stop this activity.
In the UK, you can be surprised that the women there will not hesitate to report to the police if their own fathers, grandfathers, husbands or brothers and sons watch porn or child porn and send them to prison. Apparently , it is very serious matter over there to warrant such an action by those women.
Would you send your male relatives to prison just because he watches porn online or download them into his computer?
It is against the law to distribute and possess child pornography in many countries. You can be fined or jailed or both.
I do not condone child pornography. Just because a person viewed it out of curiosity , he should not be branded a paedophile. This is not the same as a person who downloaded tons of child pornography on to his computer or distribute it .
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