Life is not without problems . If life has no problems then life is too boring and unchallenging.
Relationships have it’s up’s and down’s and men and women are different creatures from different planets.
Conflicts appear even if the relationship is great. Sometimes it is inevitable for misunderstandings to appear. They may be related to money, spare time, friends, family or career.
You need to know how to handle those problems or you will be in for a very hard time.
Sometimes ,the problem cannot be solved there and then. Your stands could be rigid or you do not give ways or want to compromise at the heat of the moment.
You should take a time out and let things cool down abit before you can become rational and ready to talk.
If you have anger, it is not wise to talk because harsh words would be spoken and you may regret it.
Don’t pressure a guy because most guys are not good at expressing themselves.
He maybe standing on the edge of the cliff at that particular moment and you may tip him over.
He could lose control and lash out physically at you . Guys are brought up that way. If the mouth cannot speak , the fist will do the talking.
Some women have a very loose or long tongue which they cannot control and this inability to reigned in their tongue may caused them injuries and in certain cases death.
They should know when to shut their mouth when they see their man are very agitated.
A wise, experienced and matured man would walk away from any heated disagreements with his partner.
You do not talk when you are irrational , angry or feeling hurt. When the other person is like being possessed, it is best to stop and walk away.
When you have cooled down, calm and your normal self , you will see things differently .
You should not seek instant solution or gratifications but to discuss it at another place and at another time.
Those heated and bias feelings would have cleared up and you could discuss it in a more rational and calm way.