Are you a doormat ?
There are givers and takers but unfortunately, some givers give so much of themselves that people will take advantage of them and they will become doormats or people pleaser.
Usually, it’s not intentional , but it does happen.
You become a doormat when you agree to do something you know is wrong and/or don’t want to, just because they want you to.
You should be so happy to be around this person, that you go against your personal beliefs and feelings.
You let them walk all over you even if there is dirt on their shoes.
You really need to evaluate your relationship with him . It will not get any better but will only get from bad to worse.
Don’t be obligated to do for others because you are afraid they will get mad.
Don’t go out of your way to put your life on hold in order to cater to others, so much that you may cancel appointments or never have time for yourself?
Set out your own limits and boundaries.
Do not always conform to his opinions.Don’t keep your opinions and feelings to yourself.Air them out.
Find your own voice or you will be forever be controlled by him.The more space you give him , the more he will exploit it .
Understand what is wrong being a doormat. Don’t sacrifice your time and energy for something you don’t enjoy doing and treat yourself the way you want to be treated.
You are slowly being suffocated and he relished what he is doing to you .
You need to get out before depression hits you . You don’t deserve all those treatments.
Love should not have any pains .If there is ,then it is not love.
You will one day regret wasting your time and energy on a fool who does not deserve you .
Where is your self worth and self respect?