Do women still link sex to love ?

Posted on June 5, 2009. Filed under: Women Issues | Tags: , , |

We have been told that generally women cannot have sex without love . How far is this true ?

Is it possible for a girl to have casual sex without any emotional attachments?

Can women compartmentalize sex like the men ? Can they separate sexual pleasures from a need of affection ,future commitments and emotional bondings?

It all depends on who she is , whether she is the loose and promiscuous type or the normal average Jane. We are excluding those hookers who sell sex for money.

Initially , she may think that having casual sex without the love is fun and exciting but after sometime , she will be in conflict with her inner self .

Like those young men who sow their wild oats, she will be crazy after she is aware of her sexuality. There is a time for that but later on , she will find it is no more fun.

She wants to be serious and only have sex with someone whom she likes and loves .

How could you go out with someone you don’t like and let alone have sex with him ?

She must have sufficient attraction or fondness or receive emotional signals from the men before it can trigger her sexual response.

Sex without love is no more acceptable to her. She is now aware of the power of her sex and the merits it can received.

Sex is linked to love to enjoy the closeness and the bonds between them. Without love , sex is just an empty thing and she could feel being used, dirty or cheap. She is wired to think that way.

Women want to be loved and desired.They need the little attentions and approvals from the men. A man who listens ,cares and show their compassion’s and love for them.

Those men need to have those qualities before it can ignite and turn their flame on.

Since men and women are wired differently ,sexual arousal of women seems to be about the emotionals, whereas men are visuals.

Women want a romantic and affectionate relationship with men and the love life cannot be handled the business like way as in the career path .

Many women may fare well in their careers but when it comes to their love life’s,they will flop

Sex is still linked to love. It is their social conditioning and the battle need to be fought in her mind.

Yeah! She can be physically aroused if you press her right buttons,but it does not mean that she is truly interested in sex or enjoy it.

If he wants to have sex with her , he will need to invest his time , energy and affections to make her feel secure and there is a possibility of emotional commitment and marriage.

Without any love and emotional involvements by him, she will feel emotionally depressed and negative feelings will make her feel being used , degraded ,humiliated and anger.

Reference and thanks to :-

http://books.google.com/books?id=BfmuYfz57-8C&pg=PA98&lpg=PA98&dq=Men+do+not+marry+women+like+these&source=bl&ots=rS-ta1N0cd&sig=UQe8OK1B3A6u3Pq77aHupU7LhMg&hl=en&ei=L9wnSvTUC8yAkQXR3fjoDQ&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=2#PPA37,M1

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