IF YOU tell your wife she is ugly….

Posted on May 31, 2009. Filed under: Uncategorized | Tags: , , |

Malaysia will soon be the only country in this world to persecute the men for telling their wives are ugly!!!! I do not know if other countries have this law yet .

You Malaysian men better watch what you tell your wives..LOL! She may carry a recorder on her to record your words and you are in the sin bin.

Malaysia’s director-general of the Women’s Development Department, Dr Noorul Ainur Mohd Nur ,said laws are being amended to reflect the seriousness of those remarks – when uttered by the husband in his attempt to humiliate his wife.

If the parliament amend the law and include this clause, those Malaysian men are in for a hard time. The Malaysian parliament consist of mostly men representatives and do you think those men parliamentarians will pass this amendment?

I suppose for now the only word is ‘ugly’ but later on may add more negative words to this clause…LOL!

Emotional abuse is not only about telling your wife is ugly,it is a psychological warfare where the men attempt to degrade and humiliate the women.

The methods of emotional abuse include causing fear by intimidation, threatening physical harm to self, partner, children, or partner’s family or friends, destruction of pets and property, forcing isolation from family, friends, or school or work.(Wikipedia)

With the modern technology , text and cyber -bullying became the new form of emotional abuse.

When some one is angry, all kinds of hurtful words just pour out from their mouth without any brake. You should not take to heart , those hurtful words because they don’t really mean it.

Some men continuously criticize you, humiliate you, or undermine your self-esteem. They come from an emotional abuse family system and do not know it is wrong.They were brought up in that kind of environment . How to blame them ?

Reference and thanks to :-

http://tnp.sg/news/story/0,4136,203560,00.html?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_abuse

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Regarding beauty, there are two extremes for women almost everywhere in the world, be it Malayasia, India or Indonesia.

In the poetry, “Love of Fame”, the 19th century poet, George W. Young, about the problematic marriages of extremely beautiful women, had written :

SOME LADIES ARE TOO BEAUTEOUS TO BE WED,
FOR WHERE IS THE MAN THAT’S WORTHY OF THEIR BED.

On the other hand, a medieval period Persian poet, Sheikh Sa’di [ Full name : Muslih-ud-Din Mushrif-ibn Abdullah ) ( 1184–1283 or 1291 ? ) ], about horrific-looking women had bluntly said :

THE HUSBAND OF THE UGLY WIFE
IS BETTER BLINDED ALL HIS LIFE.

For more information about women’s beauty, please read my article : “Why Women Spend Too Much On Their Personal Beauty” ?

http://www.sawf.org/bin/forum.dll/getentry?view=getrecent&pn=Forum&fn=Sawf&id=7928


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