It’s better to have loved and lost then not loved at all.

Posted on January 13, 2009. Filed under: Uncategorized |

What is the purpose of life if you do not know what is love or are scared of falling in love ?

Will you live all your life and not venture there like that 107 years old Chinese woman ? When she is that old and realized her follies ,that she wants to find love and be taken care off.

When she could take care of herself , she shied away from love and marriage because of what she saw in other couples which turned her off.

Would it be better to fall in love and lost than never love at all ?

In the end, you will have experienced the ups and downs of life and knows what love is all about and perhaps you may bear those scars or have children who may accompany you till the end of your life.

You won’t be so lonely after all and you have something to look forward to with children or grandchildren in your old age.

It gives you a greater insight and new experiences into the workings of the opposite sex. There are moments when it is like Heaven when you are together blissfully and there are times when you simply hate his guts. The sweet, sour and the bitter is what life is all about.

Most failed relationship is because of unreasonable high expectations from the other. We are all not perfect and we have flaws.

As we go through life , we try to adjust and make the best of the situations. We share those moments of truth, sadness and happiness.

Two people are better than one. When one falls there is another to help him/her to stand up again.

If you marry for the sake of marrying, the relationship will not last. There is no love which binds you together and they will soon drift apart.

If you decide to marry a man, you should not have an unrealistic expectations of him. He is not your passport to everything nor can he grant you all your wishes.

It is more blessed to give than to receive.

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