My Parents Fight Everyday …

Posted on October 13, 2008. Filed under: Man-Women Issues | Tags: , , , |

It is very sad when you are a young child or teenager and see your parents fighting everyday like cats and dogs.There is no love lost between them and everyday they cannot keep the peace and must fight in front of the children.

As children , there is nothing much they can do about the war between their parents. It is best that they do not take sides and stay away and not witness the acrimonious fight which could escalate into violence and in some cases leading to critical injuries or death .

Children do not understand the issues of grown ups and should let their parents work out their differences. Sometimes it is due to too much stress from working too long hours and they have no outlet to de stress. Their feelings and emotions are on tender hooks and would fly off the handle on slightest fault or provocations. They will regret later but the harm is done.

There are some parents who lose control of their emotions, kill their young children and then commit suicide. This is very tragic and we can read such news often. They should seek help or counseling if they think they are unable to handle those life issues.

The parents should not fight in front of their children as this will affect their emotional and psychological upbringings. I do not believe in fighting and if you cannot stand each other or think that there is no more love , then you ought to find a peaceful way to co exist and if that is not possible , to live separate life’s. Better to be alone and happy and the children will not face those sadness when there is a fight.

I believe that the women should know when it is time to shut up and not stoke the fire in him. Being physically weaker than him , she would only bring it down upon herself if she pushes him over the cliff.

It is not that he wants to hit or beat her up but her non stop vitriol could be the cause of him losing his control and going berserk. This is when he cannot control himself any more and lashes out violently as he cannot argue with the woman who barrage him with insults.This is a dangerous trait in a man. He sees it as the only answer to shut up the woman.

If you want to talk issues with the man , you would need to find the right time and if he raises his voice, you should shelf it and speak to him again in another appropriate time when he is in the mood to listen.

If you are a child and when your parents fight, go to your room and insert ear plugs or listen to some music . It is not a pleasant sight and it can be distressing but this is the adult world and there is nothing much you can do about your parents when they do not get along with each other.

They have fallen into the gutter and this is the only way they can communicate with each other. If they realized how it is affecting you , they should both go for counseling .

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