Would You Get Pregnant Before Your Mr. Right?
If you are in your 30 something and still not married, would you go ahead to get pregnant when you cannot even see a glimpse of your Mr. Right? Is this a sensible thing?
You think, if you don’t try to have a baby, you may not have the chance as women in the 30 something, the fertility drops and getting pregnant is not easy. You may miss the window of opportunity to have your own children. It could be your final chance. You may try to have unprotected sex with your present boyfriend to get pregnant and then leave everything to fate.
If you are a working woman, you may think it is ripe for you to have your own kid and become a single parent if the man does not want to have a relationship with you. Thinking and doing are two different things. They may think they can handle being a single parent. If they make enough, they can afford a nanny to look after the kid. Otherwise, I think it can be a big financial burden if you cannot afford a baby sitter .The two of you will have to depend on your salary alone.
If you want to have a baby, you need to plan well. You need to have financial maturity, emotional maturity and a loving relationship in order to enjoy parenthood. Without those factors, you will have a very hard and trying times, not only for you but also your love ones or your extended families that will have to pick up your slack. Your child will also suffer.
It is like buying an expensive car. You may be able to afford the down payments but you cannot afford the high installments and the costly maintenance of such luxury cars.
If your emotional, biological and practical urges to get pregnant is very strong, may God help you. Only you yourself will know the reason why you are shagging frequently with the men. Most men would not shy from having sex with a woman. Only those who fear God and there are not many on this planet.
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