Can Being Unfaithful Save Your Relationship ?
Being unfaithful is not completely negative or bad.There are some silver linings in the dark clouds. Affairs develop because one partner is tempted to search for something which s/he cannot find in that particular marriage.
It is the culmination of what is wrong with the marriage or that there is no more ‘zing’ in their relationships.Love has become tepid or lukewarm.One of the partner could be exposed to the many temptations and succumed to it.
Affairs could make or break your relationship and force you to take a good hard look at your present circumstances.It depends on the individual whether they are matured and are willing to work out their differences.
It can be devastating and heartbreaking to learn of your spouse betrayal.At first , it may hit you like a ton of brick but on hind thought , you could also be partly responsible for your partner’s crime.
To say that you are absolved of all the blame is not to accept reality.They are some people who think they are never wrong or at fault.
Indirectly you are the cause or s/he would not have strayed. It may not be your fault 100% but because you lacked that something which the other spouse cannot get from you.
An affair is the final straw in the broken down marriage. It is like a full blown cancer. Either it is cured or the marriage dies.
Will they get through the pain ,humility and resentment of their partners and repair their marriage and make it stronger? Some do after much soul searching , heart mending and compromising while others are hardhearted and cannot even forgive their partners and drive their partners away . Later on ,they may regret for not doing their best to prevent a split. It was too easy to let go.
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