Is Sex A Duty Or A Chore ?
1 Corinthians 7 : 3
The husband should fulfill his wife’s sexual needs, and the wife should fulfill her husband’s needs. (New Living Translation Bible )
Married couples have the responsibility of caring for each other.Therefore , husbands and wives should not withhold from each other but should fulfill each others needs and desires.
A leading female therapist said that women should learn to say yes in the bedroom for their health and happiness in their marriage.I would agree with her.
A woman who deny this duty to her husband is asking for troubles . He will probably look for it from another woman be it a hooker or someone who thinks highly of him and are willing to go all the way .
Sex is very important to a man just as love is very important to a woman.Marriage is about ,I scratch your back and you scratch mine. If I got an itch down there, I need your help and only you can make that itch go away.You can then expect your husband to give relief to where you itch.
Many women have achieved success in many fields and they become selfish and want to control everything.If they are highly successful in their careers , they have little or no time to play games in the bedroom.The word compromise is never in their vocabulary.
They somewhat feel disdainful, contempt and beneath their dignity to have sex with their spouse.They become used to being served and not the other way around.
She becomes more conceited and smug about her success and will tend to ignore his request until she discovered that he had an affair or wanted a divorce.
Many women after a divorce regretted their decisions not to compromise with their spouse over this sex issue and think that it is their body and it only belongs to them.
They used their body as a mean to their ends When they have achieved their ambitions , they closed their door and deny their spouse or dont find any pleasure but a chore and it kills the desires in men.