Why Women Lose Interest In Sex ?
Today’s fast pace life is the chief reason why women lose interest in sex. The stress from work and the traffic jams is enough to kill off ones libido. Then the boring lifestyle where everything runs like clockwork and nothing exciting happens.
The mind simply shuts down because there is no more juice left in them .They are running on reserve fuel .Any remaining is used up to spend whatever little time with the child and put the child to sleep.
After a hard day at the office , the mind craved to shut down and the stomach craved for food and the body craved for sleep.ZZZZzzzzz. She is physically and mentally exhausted.Present day women suffers from the lack of sleep or semisomia .
Women from the older generations had more time to relax and pampered themselves while waiting for their men. They did not have to work and were in tip top conditions compared to the present working women who are holding two or three jobs.
The fear of getting pregnant makes a women have a low interest in sex.Her sex drive is different from the men.
A man can get aroused quickly and hardened and he wants to come quickly or attack directly without wasting any time. Even though he is tired, he still want a quickie to release his sexual tensions that is building up inside of him.
Whereas a women’s sex drive is more scenic, they want to go slowly around the gardens and the parks and smell the roses before they come on..LOL!
They want to feel the emotional bonding ,care and romantic interludes with lots of caressing , stroking , sweet nothings and kissings before they get aroused and orgasm.
They want more foreplays but sometimes it is not about them but about pleasing their men. Just let him have a quickie and he will be satisfied and happy.
It is like giving a sweet or toy to a kid and see him flushed with joy and happiness.After he comes, he will be filled with waves of love for you but not for long and he will return to his normal self again like nothing happened.
If you want to please a man, you will do it his way.At other times, you will need to teach him your way. You can live without sex but a man who has no sex is an unhappy man.
Some men prefer the DIY even when they are married because they do not find it enjoyable doing it with their wife. Don’t ask me why? Probably , their mind was some where else or multitasking.
The key to making her interest rekindled is to woo her and romance her . Take her to exotic and romantic restaurants or other places where she can feel the ambience and be in the mood for love. Give plenty of praises and stop your complaining and criticisms of her.