My New Husband Is A Slob!!!
What is a slob? Someone who dress like a slob , eat’s like a slob and live’s like a slob..Aaargh! Your husband may have one or all of those qualities.Congratulations!
Your prince charming before marriage is a slob in disguise..LOL! You were smitten by love and in cloud nine and your eyes were closed but now they are opened, when your feet touched the ground.
A slob is a person who is slovenly, crude, or obnoxious. Most males are not known for neatness or care about the appearance of their living habitat.
They are more concerned about the practicality or where they put their things and not about the aesthetic functions. It is a male thing.
A women is completely different for she has been trained to always keep her room clean and neat and attention to minute details about everything.She is afraid of being labeled by others if her room or house is untidy and in a mess.
After marriage when you live together and he shed all his pretences and showed his true colours, you only realized that you have married a slob.
What are you going to do now? HELP! You complained, prodded and cajoled and nothing seems to work for him. He leave his clothes and smelly socks every where in the house.
When your partner shows no response to your wishes, there is nothing much you can do except to pick up his pieces and put it in the laundry basket.
You could train him like a doggie. If he does what you command , give him a hug and a treat. If he does not then give him the punishment.Go sleep in the dog house..LOL!
You could throw tantrums or shed crocodile tears and go on strike if he does not do what you want.
If nothing works, then tell him , you are leaving the home for good.This is a very drastic step . This process is very extreme and you can only do it if you cannot tolerate it anymore. The result is guaranteed. he will kaput and obey your wishes and your every command like a slave..LOL! You will earned his respects. Some men have to be taught that way.
Get out from their life and they will slowly learn that they cannot get on with life without you. Your absence will make them realise their mistakes .They will come around to learn to love and appreciate you more.
If they don’t , then the relationship is not worth saving. Don’t waste anymore of your time on him . What he is in need is his mama and not a wife.