Better Sex- More Orals Please!
Want great sex and better sex but too shy and shameful to talk or discuss with your partner,afraid that it may sound like criticism and may turn him/her off.
Some men and women need to grow up in this area. They are no more small children and be sheepish or prudish about this topic.
If you don’t talk or discuss about it , how can you learn what each others likes and dislikes are?If you want to improve in this area , then you will have to communicate with each other .
Easier said than done. Most Asian women are not trained to talk about sex as it is a taboo subject. It is very difficult to tell him what she wants and likes.
She expects him to find out himself .She cannot help him and he will have to grope in the dark . Women need to come out of their shell because the men may grope forever in the darkness and can never find the exit .LOL!
Generally , most women are passive in the bedroom and the onus is on the men to learn everything about sex and she would be game to do as he wants. She surrenders all to him and lets him do as he wants.Thats what she learned from young.
He may pick up some new skills from watching those pornographic DVD’s.He may not asked if she likes it or not but do it anyway because of what he learns from those pornographic movies.
He wants to try new ways and experiment and modify his techniques. He needs variations or it becomes too dull and boring .
It never crossed his mind to enquire if she enjoys those manoeuvers or not and she being the reticent type will just keep her thoughts to herself.
Both men and women do have worries and insecurities about their bodies, equipments and their performances.Men worry about being too short or not thick enough to satisfy her or they are scared that they come too early or have premature ejaculations.
Women worry about their big bums and cellulites or their small boobs or they may take too long to reach an orgasm .
The worrying will cause them to underperform and they dont feel free to enjoy the act of making love.
Having to come together is idealistic but it is not easy. Many women faked orgasm just to please the men.It would be better if you make her come first with all those foreplays and let her be in control and then she having being satisfied will return you the favour.
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